July 2007

Writing Style and Comments

One of my sites gets a huge amount of traffic. But it gets few comments.

I’ve seen sites / blogs with much smaller traffic levels receive far more comments from the readers.

I think that I often seem to be writing ex cathedra and in a sense – that this makes me smile because I know my limitations – with intellectual power. A couple of people have told me that there doesn’t seem to be much they can say to add to what I’ve written. Without vanity I think I can say that maybe it is that what I write somehow strikes my audience as intimidating. Or at least very impersonal.

This isn’t a big issue for me. I could easily create a series of posts that would prompt lots of comments. That kind of emotional manipulation would be easy. I won’t do it because it seems almost a psychological crime. A rape of sympathy.

And it would also require that I dumb down what I write if only in terms of what is called “emotional intelligence.”

So I content myself with feeling grateful for the tough and good humored – and largely female – part of my audience that shares their thoughts and feelings without any worry that I’m a deep thinker or something equally silly.

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Wating for the next phpBB

I sure hope phpBB 3.0 comes out soon. Or maybe I should just switch to Simple Machine Forums, which was really my original choice for Fetish Lore.

I delete 20 – 30 spam accounts a day. I do it when I get up, when I’m at work, even when I get up in the middle of the night.

I’m so glad that my sites that are powered by Movable Type and WordPress don’t need this attention. How well I remember that first day of the great blog spam flood: 100 junk comments in less than 30 minutes. That was the day I ended allowing open comments on my sites.

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